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曹云金离婚给了女人三大忠告

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匿名  发表于 2019-6-16 14:43:47 |阅读模式
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近日,曹云金和唐菀离婚的消息引发热议,这段婚姻的结束,让大众再次开始探讨婚姻的本质,海外的你也想参与其中,可以用快帆回到国内网络,与网友一起探讨婚姻的真谛。婚姻是两个人手牵手前行,在这条路上互相理解和包容,共同创建美好人生。婚姻不是儿戏,既然选择走进这座围城,就要肩负起其中的责任。明星的事情我们看客不好多说,但是从这件事我想给女人几个忠告。

不要奉子成婚
曹云金和唐菀结婚2个月孩子就出生了,唐菀是典型的奉子成婚。女人当你结婚前怀孕了,那么男人跟你结婚就变得没那么纯粹了,或许不是因为你们的感情走到了结婚那一步,而是因为你们有孩子了。
奉子成婚不是你的错,但是在某种程度上却让你贬值了。在婚恋关系中,社会对女人多少存在一些偏见,认为怀孕了你就跑不了了,怀孕了你就没人要了。更有甚者,你怀孕了,婆家都会看轻你,在彩礼上克扣你。奉子成婚本来是双喜临门,但是前提是你遇到了那个对的人,否则以后的路,你和孩子都很难走。

尽量找和自己有共同兴趣爱好的男人
曹云金曾在综艺里面说和唐菀没有任何共同的兴趣爱好,这在婚姻里面是很致命的,也就意味着你们没办法吃到一起玩到一起。你们的生活交集会变少,能聊得来的话题也会变少。在漫长的婚姻生活里面,多的是柴米油盐的枯燥,少的是两个人共同创造的浪漫。
如果你们没有任何共同点,又没有可以去培养共同点,你们虽然睡在一张床上却像隔着银河,这样的婚姻是很难维系的。如果你们有同样的兴趣爱好,我不敢说你们一定会幸福,但是在很大程度上,你们的生活会过得更顺利,也会在共同的兴趣爱好里面建构越来越深的感情。
比如我认识的一对夫妻,他们都喜欢打游戏,两个人下班后就一起玩,在这样的情境下是属于两个人的空间,他们可以一起升级打怪,甚至一起研究如何通关。共同的兴趣爱好决定的是你们的相处模式,两个人在一起不就是和对方一起做许多爱做的事情吗?如果你们没有任何的共同点,在婚姻这条路上会走得艰辛。

不要为了婚姻放弃自己的事业
唐菀曾经在节目中透露,和曹云金的这段婚姻让她放弃了很多,比如演戏的机会。如今他们的婚姻走向破裂,唐菀也只剩下这个孩子,我不知道她此时此刻是否会后悔嫁给曹云金,又是否会后悔为了曹云金失去了事业机会。
婚姻不是万能药,更不是保你一世安稳的殿堂。在婚姻里面,充满了许多不确定性,想要一段幸福的婚姻需要两个人的努力。如果对方不爱了,婚姻也就走到尽头了。结婚需要两个人同意,离婚却只需要一个人的决定。
女人无论何时都要牢牢抓住自己手中的牌,你要明白婚姻不是全部,你的事业同样重要。如果你拥有一份热爱的事业,能给自己更好的生活,那么就算婚姻失败了你也有过好自己生活的能力。
曹云金离婚告诉你,女人无论你和谁结婚,都请记住这些忠告:不要奉子成婚,要找有共同兴趣爱好的伴侣,不要为了婚姻放弃自己的事业。总之,女人要对自己好一点。

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